tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100475796740896413.post8254634275804849185..comments2023-10-29T08:20:47.307-07:00Comments on Ami's Star Song: Thoughts on VulnerabilityAmi Starsonghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01745610022591654541noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100475796740896413.post-91212582408450353552014-09-30T19:22:55.638-07:002014-09-30T19:22:55.638-07:00So beautifully expressed. I feel happy for the two...So beautifully expressed. I feel happy for the two of you and how you have grown together. And now you exit your chrysalis and are a lovely butterfly. :-) HugsTerpsichorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13704408254742966076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100475796740896413.post-87681235400711489262014-09-22T05:16:07.303-07:002014-09-22T05:16:07.303-07:00This is lovely Ami, and well said! I'm so glad...This is lovely Ami, and well said! I'm so glad the two of you talked and understood each other. I'm so happy for you both!<br /><br />Hugs<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100475796740896413.post-2652218338847361992014-09-16T12:14:15.229-07:002014-09-16T12:14:15.229-07:00Thanks Ronnie, and I thought I was having a boring...Thanks Ronnie, and I thought I was having a boring summer! LOL!<br /><br />Hugs<br />AmiAmi Starsonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01745610022591654541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100475796740896413.post-71254657386453527562014-09-16T09:11:11.834-07:002014-09-16T09:11:11.834-07:00Ami,
What a lovely wonderful and well written pos...Ami,<br /><br />What a lovely wonderful and well written post. I love that the two of you were to talk, listen, hear and have a better understanding of each other. Happy for both of you.<br /><br />Love,<br />Ronnie<br />xxronniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16402712634206383021noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100475796740896413.post-30719097973574182202014-09-16T06:02:25.513-07:002014-09-16T06:02:25.513-07:00To quote you "Good Gravy, it certainly was an...To quote you "Good Gravy, it certainly was an eye opener!" My butt will attest to that!<br /><br />I've noticed that since the spanking Dan is rather more HOHy than he was, but I'm not sure that he will manage to keep it up indefinitely. I shall bite my lip in order not to whine at him, and see how he chooses to deal with things. Giggle.<br /><br />Hugs<br />AmiAmi Starsonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01745610022591654541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100475796740896413.post-10949379946973099702014-09-16T05:59:10.000-07:002014-09-16T05:59:10.000-07:00Well, Minelle, our talks are not often of the '...Well, Minelle, our talks are not often of the 'lengthy' variety. <br /><br />It has helped us connect even more, but whether Dan will continue to move forwards, or will 'run on the spot' for the next six months, is anyone's guess. LOL!<br /><br />Hugs<br />AmiAmi Starsonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01745610022591654541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100475796740896413.post-14600876930081001432014-09-16T05:56:29.459-07:002014-09-16T05:56:29.459-07:00Such kind comments, PK. Thank you so much.
It'...Such kind comments, PK. Thank you so much.<br /><br />It's a difficult one to debate, but going slow is good. There is no possibility of burn-out, although sometimes the ruts can get a little deep and you need a nudge to bounce back out. <br /><br />I am living in the moment, because I am married to such an unpredictable man. There is no hiding the fact that there are some people I rather envy around here, but it's walking that fine line between 'under activity' and 'over activity'. In a way it's like sex - when there's been a bit of a drought you are ready to go through the Karma Sutra in a week!<br /><br />Hugs<br />AmiAmi Starsonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01745610022591654541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100475796740896413.post-46764952008593470142014-09-16T05:50:59.433-07:002014-09-16T05:50:59.433-07:00When you view it from a distance, marriage is a ve...When you view it from a distance, marriage is a very complex partnership. Unless you are 'truthful' with each other, how can it possibly succeed, and truth leads to vulnerability. However, I think we maybe concentrate too much on the vulnerability of the woman, and I have learned through experience that both partners in a marriage are equally vulnerable. It is daring to show that vulnerability to your spouse that is so difficult.<br /><br />Thanks for your comments, Katie. And no, our leather paddle is very pretty but not particularly soft, especially where the stitching goes around the edges! LOL!<br /><br />Hugs<br />AmiAmi Starsonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01745610022591654541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100475796740896413.post-65912279135942770592014-09-16T05:45:13.727-07:002014-09-16T05:45:13.727-07:00I needed that time, Meredith. I couldn't just ...I needed that time, Meredith. I couldn't just 'hold forth' on how I felt, because I wasn't really sure how I felt.<br /><br />I think we have a better understanding of each other now, which is a good thing.<br /><br />Hugs<br />AmiAmi Starsonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01745610022591654541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100475796740896413.post-88131582921561084482014-09-16T05:43:40.896-07:002014-09-16T05:43:40.896-07:00Thanks, Leigh. I don't know what the future ho...Thanks, Leigh. I don't know what the future holds, but things are good with us right now.<br /><br />Hugs<br />AmiAmi Starsonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01745610022591654541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100475796740896413.post-44464965245251067342014-09-15T20:24:42.069-07:002014-09-15T20:24:42.069-07:00So very happy for both of you Ami! I think your &...So very happy for both of you Ami! I think your "to be avoided at all costs spanking" was an eye opener for both of you as to how much you need TTWD in your lives. I love that you two were able to sit down and have a wonderful discussion...really hearing one another. So love watching how you two are growing. :)<br /><br />Hugs and Blessings...<br />CatCathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14266606975978680188noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100475796740896413.post-59087234325183476232014-09-15T19:21:40.220-07:002014-09-15T19:21:40.220-07:00I definitely get this in more ways than you can im...I definitely get this in more ways than you can imagine! I'm glad you and Dan can talk about it!<br />My Scotsman talks-- but not really about this in the way you both do!<br />What a wonderful experience you guys have had! It's ushering in a greater emotional understanding for your relationship and marriage!Minielle Labraunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16206283897752166320noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100475796740896413.post-33168716078940803352014-09-15T13:21:29.167-07:002014-09-15T13:21:29.167-07:00Ami, I'm so happy for the two of you. I can re...Ami, I'm so happy for the two of you. I can relate so very much to the way you say you were raised and the way Dan was - you described me and Nick to a tee, we were raised exactly like the two of you. You two have done well. We're still stuck. I think Nick is completely happy with me 'not being emotional' at him. <br /><br />You two have really grown together and I really, really am happy for you.PKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100475796740896413.post-74374665988476154462014-09-15T11:43:04.976-07:002014-09-15T11:43:04.976-07:00This is a beautifully well written post, about a s...This is a beautifully well written post, about a subject that is presently very near and dear to my heart, Ami! :) This was such a great read, and such a beautiful poem to go with it. Now I will have to study it a bit more, for better understanding. :)<br /><br />I'm really happy for you and Dan! You know, you two have been through the wringer with life's stresses, you come together and listen to each other, figuring out how to meet the needs of the other, with love. And a spanking. Even a rather sizable one, kind of out of the blue. <br /><br />You've thought about it all, talked about it all, loved through it all. You've got it I think. Being all out there for each other. Being able to fully put it all out there and know that no matter what, we are loved beyond measure. That's the ticket! And sometimes even the paddle! Hopefully the nice leathery soft and pretty one... LOL! <br /><br />I am more than happy for you both!! WOW is it ever the journey of all journeys!! How very special after all this time, to be able to do it together. At a recent wedding that we attended, I thought long and hard about the vows. When they talked about becoming one, it had all new meaning for me. Lovely, lovely post! Many hugs,<br /><br /><3 KatieKatiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09502903951761571578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100475796740896413.post-18364384719014313872014-09-15T11:02:00.378-07:002014-09-15T11:02:00.378-07:00Ami,
I love the way you took your time to assess e...Ami,<br />I love the way you took your time to assess exactly what happened between the two of you. You listened to one another and can now face what comes next together. <br />MeredithAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100475796740896413.post-69605054816506655692014-09-15T10:05:15.367-07:002014-09-15T10:05:15.367-07:00Lovely Ami. So happy for both of you that you are...Lovely Ami. So happy for both of you that you are able to sort through these things and both come out winners.Aimless Ramblinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00720714875762344391noreply@blogger.com