tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100475796740896413.post842197910507109074..comments2023-10-29T08:20:47.307-07:00Comments on Ami's Star Song: A Further Word on TrustAmi Starsonghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01745610022591654541noreply@blogger.comBlogger21125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100475796740896413.post-77349178306958697372015-07-09T17:56:42.390-07:002015-07-09T17:56:42.390-07:00Ami, just found your blog and I enjoyed it. I agr...Ami, just found your blog and I enjoyed it. I agree with you on the wood, we have a beautiful wooden paddle that is the devil. I hate it, he loves it. Nuf said. Take care. KAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100475796740896413.post-30818961328897906812015-07-09T11:09:27.347-07:002015-07-09T11:09:27.347-07:00Hi Blondie! I was so amazed that Dan should do suc...Hi Blondie! I was so amazed that Dan should do such a thing that I think I was in shock. Although my back ached a little afterwards from trying to keep still and concentrate whilst he 'played', I enjoyed the experience of being asked to show my submission to his desires. I had no idea whatsoever that the mug had no tea in it, but I did suspect that might be the case. I love your 'paddle on calves' and wonder if that would work for us. Dan usually has to place his right leg over my legs when I am OTK as I kick by reflex. I wish you would write a post about keeping still whilst being spanked. You are so good at explaining things like that and I believe it would help lots of us who are not very good at it. I am rarely spanked over the footboard of our bed due to my kicking out. And I have never yet managed to achieve this 'giving in and going limp' that you read about in books. I struggle and kick to the end if it feels like Dan is spanking too hard for me to bear. Spankings of that category seem much better 'after' rather than 'during'!<br /><br />Hugs<br />Ami Ami Starsonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01745610022591654541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100475796740896413.post-80592535747507144532015-07-07T17:13:53.640-07:002015-07-07T17:13:53.640-07:00Wow! I wonder if that would work for me. Ty has pl...Wow! I wonder if that would work for me. Ty has placed a paddle on my calves to ensure that I don't kick my feet. But if I do kick, at least I am not spilling tea. Way to go for not moving. I would rather be in bonds too. Isn't trust one of the best things about these kind of relationships. Blondiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10990349853331249894noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100475796740896413.post-14557240683849413002015-07-04T03:48:20.624-07:002015-07-04T03:48:20.624-07:00I can recommend it, Roz. If you had to view it in ...I can recommend it, Roz. If you had to view it in a critical manner, it was several things rolled into one. The need to trust, the need to stay still despite what was happening to you, taking a risk with spontaneity... It was most certainly memorable, I'll say that for it!<br /><br />Hugs<br />AmiAmi Starsonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01745610022591654541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100475796740896413.post-60218676996191894462015-07-04T03:44:45.783-07:002015-07-04T03:44:45.783-07:00He does seem to be coming into his own in the most...He does seem to be coming into his own in the most unusual way, though, Cat. I just relaxed and tried to think of "England". LOL<br /><br />Fun is most definitely better than feeling roasted.<br /><br />Hugs<br />AmiAmi Starsonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01745610022591654541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100475796740896413.post-76593739996955883912015-07-04T03:43:08.584-07:002015-07-04T03:43:08.584-07:00I think the words could be 'parallel tracks...I think the words could be 'parallel tracks'. LOL! I haven't got a clue what this loving man of mine will do next. I think that I am always moaning about him not being spontaneous is seeping through the cracks. We had another spontaneous happening last evening, but I am most certainly not posting about that! LOL! But as usual, it was completely hilarious - in a good way. <br /><br />I am proud of myself for being still and not spilling the tea that wasn't there. Usually I am the wriggliest person on the planet! <br /><br />Hugs<br />AmiAmi Starsonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01745610022591654541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100475796740896413.post-57724358493875111792015-07-03T05:47:54.577-07:002015-07-03T05:47:54.577-07:00Hi Ami, I really enjoyed reading this post. You to...Hi Ami, I really enjoyed reading this post. You too do know how to start the day! :)<br /><br />That was so creative of Dan. Hmm..psychological bondage, interesting food for thought. I'm sure I wouldn't have been able to stay still, good on you! Glad you ended up grinning like a Cheshire Cat :)<br /><br />Hugs <br />Roz Rozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100475796740896413.post-2784275584957356922015-07-03T00:55:03.959-07:002015-07-03T00:55:03.959-07:00It was funny but with a serious message to it. Per...It was funny but with a serious message to it. Perhaps the best way to learn a lesson. I should have guessed he would never leave tea in the blessed mug, but I wasn't quite certain as he often leaves it so long before he drinks it, that it is quite cold, and then he only drinks half.<br /><br />I always think of you having your coffee in bed with Jack. It is such a nice way to start the day.<br /><br />Hugs<br />AmiAmi Starsonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01745610022591654541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100475796740896413.post-66385350634910326882015-07-03T00:52:51.545-07:002015-07-03T00:52:51.545-07:00I am wondering if perhaps our husbands are in secr...I am wondering if perhaps our husbands are in secret cahoots with each other? Except that I would really prefer it if mine addressed the snippiness immediately, instead of leaving it for ages so that I have almost forgotten all about it. Maybe one day... A girl can always hope.<br /><br />Hugs<br />AmiAmi Starsonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01745610022591654541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100475796740896413.post-74439842905452381602015-07-03T00:51:11.866-07:002015-07-03T00:51:11.866-07:00Hi Rosie! Yes you would; anyone could if I can. J...Hi Rosie! Yes you would; anyone could if I can. Just think of yoga and pilates. And, I suppose the main point was that there was no tea in the mug as it was all to do with trust. Limp and compliant? Ha! When I am spanked for real, it's a wonder you can't hear me where you live!<br /><br />Hugs<br />AmiAmi Starsonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01745610022591654541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100475796740896413.post-78543404752569245232015-07-03T00:49:20.135-07:002015-07-03T00:49:20.135-07:00I am snorting with laughter! You cannot imagine wh...I am snorting with laughter! You cannot imagine what was going through my mind at the time! Especially as Dan was not "playing fair". LOL LOL<br /><br />Hugs<br />AmiAmi Starsonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01745610022591654541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100475796740896413.post-35228836865320524802015-07-03T00:47:44.920-07:002015-07-03T00:47:44.920-07:00Never done Bootcamp as the version I read nearly p...Never done Bootcamp as the version I read nearly put me off DD for life! But I think that now we are several years into DD/TTWD, it would be very different. I like the thought of 'reviving' things, but not too certain of severe spankings just for the sake of it. I can get those anyway if I forget who is in charge! LOL! How long did you do Bootcamp for? Was it beneficial to you both?<br /><br />I do like the idea of a knickerless day! I thought Blondie had the right idea there. Love the idea of the blanket under the stars. You certainly are a true romantic!<br /><br />Thank you so much for commenting, Ray. I love it when I get comments from new people. It is great to meet you both.<br /><br />Hugs<br />AmiAmi Starsonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01745610022591654541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100475796740896413.post-22020717722108919452015-07-03T00:42:11.225-07:002015-07-03T00:42:11.225-07:00Being on hands and knees isn't so hard when yo...Being on hands and knees isn't so hard when you are used to either yoga or pilates. I was just terrified of the "tea that wasn't really there" and getting it all over the place. The objective was 'trust' as Dan is always saying that I try to orchestrate everything despite being threatened with spankings. It got me thinking about how we need to trust in everything, not just the things we think are important at the time. <br /><br />Smart Alec? Oh Minelle, never a truer word was said in jest! LOL!<br /><br />Hugs<br />AmiAmi Starsonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01745610022591654541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100475796740896413.post-63030271330762534612015-07-02T16:58:14.474-07:002015-07-02T16:58:14.474-07:00Good gravy Ami...Dan sure is coming into his own i...Good gravy Ami...Dan sure is coming into his own isn't he...the man is getting downright creative. ;) Wow...don't think I could have held still no matter what I may have ruined by moving. Hope you continue to have fun.<br /><br />Hugs and blessings...CatCathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14266606975978680188noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100475796740896413.post-24510822732155785842015-07-02T12:48:03.335-07:002015-07-02T12:48:03.335-07:00Ami
The teacup sounds like a good bootcamp idea. H...Ami<br />The teacup sounds like a good bootcamp idea. Have you ever tried that? We just started and it really helps revive things<br />I came up with a new idea a little while ago after reading Blondie's newest post (No Panty Day). I found it can be very tiresome unbuckling belts, pulling down two sets of garments, then pulling back up numerous times, especially during boot camp. I just thought a little while ago. Why not just leave the pants off for the duration of bootcamp? I am not joking. If some are concerned about going without pants for a week or two, there are towels and pillows to sit on for comfort. My wife and I tried the blanket sitting outside one time (my hand on her bottom) looking at the stars. Very romantic.<br />What does everyone think?<br /><br />RayAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100475796740896413.post-31816085632155120152015-07-02T12:19:43.459-07:002015-07-02T12:19:43.459-07:00I enjoyed this post very much, Ami! :) The thing ...I enjoyed this post very much, Ami! :) The thing that it made me think about is that not only does ttwd bring us tremendous growth over time, but it brings the same to our spanky fellas as well. <br /><br />You and I started out with the 50's books, lurked at the same time and introduced it to our husbands in our own ways, but within the same kind of time frames. Now what we have on our hands (or more accurately "on our bottoms" are husbands who seem to have the spanking down, enjoy its benefits in all ways and are becoming quite creative in the process. Pretty amazing- that is for sure!<br /><br />I have no earthly idea how you were able to be still and not spill that tea. Well, the tea that wasn't in the cup after all! As Sunny said, "Good for you." I wonder what Dan will have you do next! LOL! Many hugs,<br /><br /><3 Katie Katiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09502903951761571578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100475796740896413.post-15501833078531945042015-07-02T08:56:14.209-07:002015-07-02T08:56:14.209-07:00Your husband is very inventive. I don't thin...Your husband is very inventive. I don't think I could have kept still, no matter<br />Good for you..Aimless Ramblinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00720714875762344391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100475796740896413.post-1039531986407321262015-07-02T08:04:38.455-07:002015-07-02T08:04:38.455-07:00I'm pretty sure I wouldn't be able to keep...I'm pretty sure I wouldn't be able to keep still in that position, even if my best bedding were at stake. I can't go limp and compliant either and I've never come close to a barn warmer.<br /><br />Dan is very resourceful! <br /><br />Rosie<br /><br />Sounds like allAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100475796740896413.post-43271090653177672342015-07-02T06:52:06.172-07:002015-07-02T06:52:06.172-07:00Ami,
Once again, a really enjoyable tale to enjoy ...Ami,<br />Once again, a really enjoyable tale to enjoy whilst I have my morning coffee.<br />Dan sounds like a man who enjoys his mormings with you by his side.<br />MeredithAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100475796740896413.post-1521984749425591122015-07-02T06:31:45.288-07:002015-07-02T06:31:45.288-07:00I think your husband is adorable! He NOTICES when ...I think your husband is adorable! He NOTICES when you are snippy and cares enough about your relationship to DO something about it. I just love it.PKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100475796740896413.post-9347284721858195512015-07-02T05:43:41.856-07:002015-07-02T05:43:41.856-07:00That man of yours has been hiding all these ideas ...That man of yours has been hiding all these ideas and experiments all along! I love it!! I can't imagine how you 'knelt' for so long! I don't know how you are sitting though! Awesome job my dear!<br />TRUST. I'm going to think about this a lot today! It does make me smile and yet it was such a perfect way to say something so simple. <br />I do believe he is a bit of a smart Alec however! ;-)Minielle Labraunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16206283897752166320noreply@blogger.com