Wednesday, 12 December 2012

Introducing Ami...

Starman first sang to me a great many years ago.  To be honest, I don't know why he sang to me.  He was so very handsome with his dark amber "come to bed" eyes, his dark chestnut hair and his beautiful smile.  At 16 he swept me off my feet.  And sometimes I think I have never really felt the ground since.  Naturally, I sang back to him.

Usually we sing in harmony and everything is fine.  But occasionally we sing out of key.  And occasionally we find we cannot sing at all.

So we've started walking along a new path.  Our destination is so far away that we're hardly aware of its existence.  In between there are many bends in the road, many hills to be climbed and even a few deviations from the route.  Everyone else seems so far ahead of us it's almost as if we are walking on our own.

I'm worried because we are taking this journey at my instigation.  I'm uncertain because although the day started out sunny and bright, we seem to already have encountered rain, hail and sleet in considerable quantities, and now the mist is so thick I'm wondering whether we shall manage to stay on the road and not lose our way.

But, Starman, despite his lack of understanding, is stalwart and resolute.  He has put out his hand and clasped mine tightly, and I feel the love and know I will be safe in his care.  I may not be able to see the distance we have to run, but there is no other person I would sooner run with.

I hope you will all feel able to share some parts of our journey with us, and for that I thank you kindly.  



  1. Hi Sweetie! Congratulations on your new blog!! You went from Wordpress to Google...I tried wordpress as well, and just couldn't get the hang of things.
    Your Starman sounds very nice, handsome and loving.
    Our journey in dd began at my urging, Ami - I couldn't admit that I longed for erotic spanky playing around and thought I might get it this way - unfortunately, I also got am HOH with an itchy trigger finger.....
    Your man is leading you, you are sensible enough to follow - everything will be wonderful.....I can't wait to read along the way.
    I'll put a notice up on your blog.

    1. I'm still not sure I have the hand of things but welcome to my blog. I need all the support I can get. It seems a lot of wives have been the ones to bring Dd into their homes. I know it won't be easy, but we will both give it our best shot! Thanks so much Lillie. Hugs, Ami

  2. Welcome to blog land Ami. I'm sure you and Starman will define and find your way. Just remember - time, patience, and communication. If you get frustrated, you will probably hear a lot of us repeat that mantra to you many times. ;) Good luck in your journey.


    1. Hello Cat and a big welcome! Frustration is definitely the word at the moment. In everything! Even this blog doesn't seem to want to work properly when I try to type things into it!

      Frustration also at myself for not being as good at communicating as I thought I was. In fact, nothing is as I thought it was! Starman is taking to this like a duck to water in some areas, mainly because he has always been the ultimate 'decision maker' in the household. But we locked horns in a big way this week and the 'major' spanking I thought I probably had coming to me didn't really happen. I'll be writing about it when I can get my blog to 'obey me' and let me write as much as I want and not cut me off one screen view down!

      I hope you'll come back and support me and that the others will too - it's hard 'writing in to the clouds' and just hoping that the community will understand that I now not only have Dd to work on but a recalcitrant blog site as well! Hugs, Ami

  3. Hi Ami,
    Welcome to blog land! The best advise I can give you is let go of any expectations or trying to direct anything. I think for me that has been the hardest thing to do and has caused great frustration. I first brought this lifestyle up to my husband at the end of May. We discussed it for months and officially started it on Sept. !. It has now been more than three months and nothing has gone as either one of us expected. But we have grown as individuals and as a couple. I am still looking forward to looking back at the end of the year and seeing how much we both have changed, although I now accept it probably won't look like my expectations.: )
    I am ok with that now.
    Again Welcome!

    1. Hey Bluebird, Many thanks and welcome to my blogsite. You will never know just how good it feels to hear from other "newbies". I'm still struggling with just how difficult it is to be truly submissive. There is a great deal more to this than just spanking! That is in reality a very small part. We are working on the communication factor at the moment. I had thought, until now, that we communicated very well. But now I have discovered that if I don't agree with Starman's decisions, we are beginning to talk to each other without getting irritated or angry. And I think, to be honest, that this is more on my side than Starman's. I truly don't think that to go straight in with mega punishment exercises will cut it with us. We have to learn to get back to the foundations and have a reassessment of the brickwork first! Many hugs, Ami

  4. Hello my friend... Welcome to our community Ami.
    I am so happy to see you have started your blog so that the song you sing together can be shared by many :) Congratulations!

    There aren't necessarily people far ahead or far behind, we're all on a similar path, and you're not alone. You might view it as a journey where if you decide to take a moment someone walking along will come upon you and share. As you continue to grow as a couple and your moving along more quickly at some point, you'll come upon people to share with and can help lighten their load.
    We're all on one similar path with many travelers :)
    Don't worry about a destination... enjoy the journey!

    1. Thank you BB very much for your kind comments. Welcome to my blog! I'm under no illusions that everything will be plain sailing - but then, life is rarely as anticipated. But I will enjoy the journey. Especially with all these great people standing to left and right of me! I feel very much at home!

      Many hugs, Ami

  5. Very nice blog Ami.
    Looking forward to reading more.
    Drop by our hill when you get a chance!
    best wishes

    Jack's Jill

  6. Hey Jill! Welcome! Thanks very much, I need all the support I can get. Hugs, Ami